Worried. The world has been worried for so long now – worried about our children, our parents, our neighbors, our selves. Worried we should isolate more or isolate less, worried we should gather, then worried if we do gather. Worry has kidnapped us all.
Despite the particular difficulties the pandemic has presented to those who work with flowers, whether growing, designing, or selling them, I think that those in the floral world are, in some ways, better equipped to adapt. After all, when you are dealing with a perishable product and life’s most important moments, worry is part of the business, even without a pandemic. Growers worry the flowers won’t be ready at the right time, or, if they are, there won’t be enough, or there will be too many, or they will be the wrong color. Designers worry their order will be incomplete, or the prices will go up, or the flowers won’t hold. Peek behind beautiful designs and you will find layers of work and worry.
You will also find grace, infused in every petal and leaf. Wearying as the pandemic is, there is unexpected kindness, acceptance, and generosity. So many of us are giving grace and allowing it to be given to us. With weddings especially being disrupted, reconfigured, and then reworked again, we have an opportunity to examine what the meaning of the day is, beyond wanting a specific flower or foliage. When flowers are scarce, turn to your local growers, who can supply, especially this time of year, the most glorious flowers. They may not be roses, but they are lovely, and, if you look at the meaning, isn’t that what weddings are about – a celebration of a new union, and a new commitment by two people who have negotiated and compromised to get to their wedding. Two people coming together with a wedding looking different than first envisioned, but perfect nonetheless?
Just like flowers. Every flower can create a gorgeous feeling of joy and celebration or solemn remembrance, if we let go of one vision and welcome another.
What’s Available Locally in October: This list is by no means comprehensive, just a sampling of what growers in our area may have this month.
Ageratum, Anemones (Fall Blooming), Basil, Caryopertis, Celosia, Cosmos, Dahlias, Gladiolos, Limelight Hydrangeas, Marigolds, Rosemary, Sage, Salvia, Sunflowers, Tuberose, Zinnias
Highlighted Bloom: Every Fall for three years I asked my friend Diane Lutz at Dilly Dally Garden what that gorgeous blue was, and every year she would tell me Caryopteris. I finally planted my own, and the blue is so welcome for autumn designs.
Care tips for Caryopertis: Caryopertis has outstanding vase life, typically 10 days or more. Often harvested when the first bottom blooms have opened, it is better to wait until more have opened, as they ones unopened don’t open much more after being cut. It can be tricky to hydrate, and hot water is recommended to help.